I guess it really isn't a dilemma, but it feels like it. Remember this quilt?
When cut, it won't even look like a wall hanging, because I don't have the same fabrics to use for borders, it will cut straight across some of the blocks, so it won't be even at 2 1/2 blocks by 3 blocks.
They aren't quilters so they really don't understand what this will do to this beautiful piece.
I will do my best to gently help the granddaughter-in-law understand what she wants done. I hope, I hope, that they change their minds.